It absolutely is ok to be ok with where you are and give yourself room to just exist. My area I constantly try to improve on is cleaning. Two toxic exes berating my not ever being good enough at cleaning for them caused some PTSD, and I sometimes let things slide. Recently my mom was lecturing me on my not cleaning something well enough, which led to me blurting out I was sorry I’m not perfect. Yes, it’s all well and good to want to be better, but it can be exhausting to always be striving for perfection or even as near as we can get. Not sure that makes sense, but it is ok to just be.
It absolutely is ok to be ok with where you are and give yourself room to just exist. My area I constantly try to improve on is cleaning. Two toxic exes berating my not ever being good enough at cleaning for them caused some PTSD, and I sometimes let things slide. Recently my mom was lecturing me on my not cleaning something well enough, which led to me blurting out I was sorry I’m not perfect. Yes, it’s all well and good to want to be better, but it can be exhausting to always be striving for perfection or even as near as we can get. Not sure that makes sense, but it is ok to just be.